wake-up call

haha, oh, that is a funny title when i think about how the morning started....but not what my post is about! Ill get back to that.

So last night my dear hubby and i were out for a smoke. I think all our talk about him 'growing a set' and going after what you want MIGHT be paying off. It was a wake up call for me when he stated that it is bothering him that im not 'doing my job'. He was kind about it, and made light in a sense, but it was obvious that he is discontented. He has no grudge about the year i was on Matleave. or My being sick, recovery, treatment, Hypo states for testing....but its time for me to get my ass in gear. If i am gonna be home i have to be a good housewife. That means picking up after everyone, doing all the cleaning, keeping the house constantly company ready; on top of all the greatly appreciated things i do. I kinda already knew this, but he had never grumbled about helping out, or the fact that my home isnt perfect liek Dee's..or Jenn's.

So i got up this morning...after the rude awakening of jays 'ass blast' after he turned off the alarm..followed shortly there-after by horrendously gross noises coming from the other side of the bathroom door which is adjacent to our bedroom door..that was the mornings wake-up call. So he went to the gym, and i got up and put on a load of wash, loaded the dishwasher and put it on, and proceeded to cook him breaky for when he got back from the gym.

So i have a list of things to do today a mile long...and i hope to have it all done before he gets home from work. Im on the PC right now, cuz i am taking a break to have my tea.... lol.

So yeah, time for me to pull up my socks and become the perfect housewife.....Dee and Jenn may have lil feet, but i have some big shoes to fill haha.

thats all i have to write at the moment...