What is with everyone breaking up???? My ex and his GF broke up, His ex and her BF of 5 years broke up, there is a bunch of people on MCF who's marriage is ending, my cousin and her BF broke up, my best friend and his GF broke up.....Craziness!!! Like, sure, it happens and such..but 25% of everyone i know breaking up at the same time????
I do think its for the best that my Ex and his GF broke up.. they were not a good match at all, and she made my daughter miserable. it was a terrible situation.... but ( and i wont express my opinion about the following for Karma's sake) my ex stands to lose ALOT with this break up. He has only been with her for like 2 years, and he bought a house like a year ago... and she refused to sign a Co-habitation aggreement, and managed to get her name on the title..even tho it was the Ex and his mom that financed this house... and because she got herself pregnant- which made them instantly commonlaw... she is now entitled to 50% of the house, and the Ex is on the hook for childsupport for not only their baby, but her 3 other kids! Jay and i always knew what was going on.....She hooked up with a guy who's family has money, and she pushed for certain things..including getting pregnant even tho the Ex really didnt want any more kids, and so little miss mom of 4, who was living in Co-op housing, and living off her other kids childsupport now has a house and is entitled to spousal support, AND Child support times 4!
I feel bad that he will be screwed....but.....i know Karma has a hand in this......
WRT my best friends break up...its good in that they were not a match.... but i feel bad for him... he is in his 30's and is now firmly convinced that women are a waste of time....
WRT my cousin..... i dont know about the relationship.... but she is 30 and still unmarried, and without children.... She is a professional tho, and has a lovely posh Condo...but still as a woman, im sure there is a part of her that would like to don a white gown, and eventually swaddle a wee babe before she is OLD....
WRT to my friends in London..the Ex's ex and my buddy Nick... they were a good fit, and she is a good mom, and they were a really good couple, but i have noticed with Facebook status'' that she has been spending ALOT of time at the brs and clubs and partying, and maybe she was feeling a little trapped, hopefully they find their way back together...i had always thought that they were gonna be together forever...Nick is 30 too....
Im starting to see a pattern...... Ill also add..... my parents broke up wwhen my mom was 30......
i know someone else who had issues in their 30th year...
I turn 30 this October...
Hmm...
well that is all i have to write right now....
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